You see, the institution that studies women, is the one men cannot graduate from.
As jokingly as this might sound, it has a lot of undeniable truths in it.
Hence the scriptural lines “the heart (core being) of man is the most deceitful (cunny) who can know it?”
Man is difficult to solve.
In physiological context, for instance, a woman combines the man’s physical make up plus a few other embodiments like womb, breast etc.
The woman is a sea of emotions, she exhibits all the emotional junks in the world.
Is it because they are made from a weak vessel (man), thus becoming weaker vessels.
The full understanding of woman’s make up is a mountain of challenge, which I believe can be made plain someday.
Well this article is not meant to provide some kind of formula or algorithms to decipher women or their behaviour, rather it is aim at contributing to an understanding that can help you(man) get along with women better.
Therefore If we can’t fully know the woman, we can atleast know WHEN SHE SAYS NO.
There is a big but unobvious difference between a man’s NO and a woman’s NO.
The comprehension of this proceeds from the understanding that a man’s NO comes from the head, (his logical compartment) while that of a woman comes from the heart, (the seat of her feelings).
A man says No because the subject matter is not reasonable but a woman’s No can be triggered from more other factors than ordinary logic.
1. How the subject matter was presented.
2. In what physical, emotional, mental, or environmental condition.
3. Who said it and so on…
When a woman says No, two things are involved it is either “yes but NO” (a pronounced No but a silent yes), or “No but YES” (a pronounced Yes but a silent no )
Are you confused?
Me too ?
Just like presenting the same water in a different container.
How would she give two opposite answers to the same question? ?
She is actually giving the same answer but the problem is, you were only hearing her voice, you were not listening to her heart. So you could not decipher the actual message she was communicating.
So that when she says “yes”, but feels “No”, pick the latter, yes. And vice versa.
Average men speak from and logic, women does the same from feelings.
An average woman is more emotional than rational, making her really unpredictable.
She acts out of feelings rather than out of meticulous calculations and logic which can be always predictable.
As a man you need to understand this to be able to not just tolerate but love her.
This is just my opinion, I am not a graduate of womancology ☺